On Tuesday morning I ran across this letter on Reddit, from a father disowning his gay son. It broke my heart. It’s not the first time that I’ve seen something like this; here in Utah it’s a pretty common story. In fact, I had friends in high school who experienced it firsthand. But Tuesday was the first time I’d run across such a story since becoming a dad. My son is living in his mom’s belly right now, so obviously we don’t know his sexual orientation. Still, the letter I read Tuesday morning made me wonder what my letter would say if the news that my son was gay ended up being a surprise. read more
